lives in the in-between

So much of life happens in the spaces we barely notice. In the seconds between sentences. In the quiet before someone answers. In the pause where we decide whether to speak or to let the moment pass. We rush through our days, focused on what’s next, on what needs to be done. But meaning often lives in the in-between, between the things we planned, between the milestones we chase, between the moments we think define us. The real weight of life is in the softness of what fills the gaps. It’s in the glance exchanged when words aren’t needed. In the way someone lingers just a second longer before saying goodbye. In the hush of a morning before the world wakes up. These moments ask for nothing, demand nothing, and yet, they shape us in ways we rarely recognize. Perhaps if we slowed down, we would see them more clearly. Perhaps the life we are searching for is not in the big, extraordinary moments, but in the spaces we too often rush past. Because life is not just in what happens. It is in how it happens. In the pauses, in the breath between words, in the quiet spaces that are easy to overlook but impossible to replace.

gaze from the teacup

Back here after a pretty long hiatus. Worked on this piece of art wherein we’re putting Netta in a teacup. As they say magic exists for people who believe in it. Our sharp senses are patiently sought out to unravel the magic around you.

“gaze from the tea cup” – fine art from The Border of a Mind Studios.

..“Magic exists. Who can doubt it, when there are rainbows and wildflowers, the music of the wind, and the silence of the stars? Anyone who has loved has been touched by magic. It is such a simple and such an extraordinary part of the lives we live..”

― Nora Roberts

Story de’ aquatics.

I’m a hobbyist aquarist and used to maintain and curate fish bowls many years back. In the first fish bowls, I started with plastic accessories and pebbles. Over time, I started to move on to planted setups. Nowadays I personally prefer natural components in the aquarium system. Below is a photograph from 2014. This is one of the first planted fish bowls I had built from scratch right from the sand to the plants and nice little goldfish in there.

When I used to do it in the past, I didn’t use to read or watch extensively on this art and used to have trial and error ways of building things up. I didn’t for example, had nutrients added to the sand base and didn’t read or care much about the environments required for certain types of plants.

I would like to thank MD Fishtanks for re-kindling the curiosity and inquisitiveness back in me for planted aquariums and explore aquascaping. The way he has done videos elucidating simple concepts and just the sheer art of doing it really impressed me. Ideas fueled desire and it further triggered actions and here we are with a new tank setup.
The below tank is what we have now. I did not build it. It was built by a different person and I would like to try and learn aquascaping with this setup. The fish in there is a half-moon betta. It’s a variant of a siamese fighter fish. They normally stay alone and is not compatible with other big fishes around as it might attack them. The set up has mechanical water filters (non-chemical) and some natural wood and some rocks for plant growth.

As I write this, some plants have started to have black patches on their leaves and are probably rotting. I need to find out the reasons and explore remedial measures. It’s a pretty long learning process and I would like to try to post some updates in the future.

As of now, the primary focus is to have the below:
– Understand chlorine removal from tap water and identify good less obtrusive chemicals for the same with least effect to flora and fauna.
– Understanding the importance of feeding CO2 for plants externally, preferably using a cylinder or any other external source.
– Have wood and stones re-arranged and reconfigured to have more room for fishes.
– Explore the option of putting in some guppy fishes or some neon tetra fishes.

God bless! Have you tried aquascaping techniques? Feel free to share your thoughts.