Tag: Experiences

excitement in the mundane

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I dont know what situation your mind is going through when you’re reading this post, and sometimes it happens that we often overlook the small joys that once thrilled us. I thought of writing about it to remind both of us about it because nobody really tells us about it. As children, we found wonder in everything – a trip to the park, a favorite cartoon, or the promise of a half-day at school would fill us with excitement. But as we grow older, responsibilities, routines, and pressures slowly overshadow these sparks of joy. We become less present, and in this process, we lose touch with that natural inclination for excitement. Rediscovering this perspective isn’t just about enjoying life more; it’s about cultivating a deeper appreciation for the present and reclaiming a sense of wonder.

Imagine the impact of simply looking forward to a warm tea on a chilly morning or a brief walk under the evening sky. It’s not the grand, life-changing events that fill our days with meaning but the ordinary moments that we choose to cherish. It’s easy to underestimate how uplifting it can be to have small things to look forward to – a favorite song on repeat, a book waiting to be read, or a new recipe to try. These are things that make us feel connected to ourselves and keep us grounded in a world that’s often overwhelming.

Developing the ability to find excitement in the mundane is an act of resilience. It’s a gentle rebellion against a society that often insists that happiness lies in milestones and achievements. By choosing to embrace the small, everyday moments, we give ourselves permission to savor life. This isn’t about ignoring challenges or pretending that life is always simple, but rather about infusing joy where we can. Reclaiming this sense of excitement is about reviving a lost zest for life and, in doing so, finding happiness in the here and now. Before you scroll down to your next task, I want you to be at peace thinking about it. Have a great day ahead. And please come back soon for my words : )

longing isn’t bound by rules

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In my thoughts before writing abstracts on the blog, it’s always etched in my mind that longing isn’t bound by rules. You can yearn for a moment, a feeling, a place, or a version of yourself that no longer exists. You might miss a person who once filled your days with laughter, or a quiet morning spent in a city that now feels like a distant dream. You can miss the person you once aspired to be, or the path you didn’t take, a life that seemed possible but never came to be.

There’s an ache in recalling a shared meal with someone you’ve lost touch with or a fleeting connection that slipped away too soon. You can feel the absence of a friend who lives oceans away, or the gentle embrace of a loved one sitting right beside you. Sometimes, you even miss the things that never truly belonged to you—a cozy armchair by a fire you only saw in passing, a sunset view from a mountain you haven’t climbed, or a life story you glimpsed but couldn’t make your own.

And perhaps, there’s the most bittersweet longing of all: when what you miss reappears in your life, only for you to realize that the memory was warmer, more comforting than the reality. In that moment, you understand that sometimes, the idea of something holds more power than its presence ever could.

a feline fiasco under the hood

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It was just another mundane wednesday afternoon, wrapping up work with the usual stack of spreadsheets , cad files and emails. My colleague Shyamatron and I were heading to the parking lot, discussing the day’s stuff and ready to tackle the Dubai traffic on the way home. Little did I know that my car had attracted an unexpected – and rather vocal – passenger.

As I slid into the driver’s seat and turned the key, something seemed off. Instead of the familiar purr of the engine, an unholy combination of sounds erupted from under the hood – a mixture of mechanical grinding and what sounded like… crying? I exchanged puzzled glances with Shyamatron, who looked equally bewildered. At first, I assumed the worst: had my car finally succumbed to some mystery ailment? “Not now,” I muttered, “please, not today.” I quickly switched off the engine, hoping that whatever was happening would just magically disappear.. The second attempt produced the same haunting symphony. At this point, my mind started racing through worst-case scenarios – had my reliable four-wheeler finally decided to throw a mechanical tantrum?

Being the amateur mechanic I pretend to be, I popped out to investigate, peering under the car like a confused archaeologist examining ancient ruins. Nothing seemed amiss, yet the moment I attempted a third start, the truth revealed itself in the form of an unmistakable “MEOW!” Ah, so my car hadn’t transformed into some crying machine – it had merely been hijacked by a feline desperado! The plot thickened as we tried to locate our mysterious passenger. It was like playing an automotive version of hide-and-seek, except our hidden player had four paws and apparently a very strong set of lungs. Finally, I opened the trunk, and in a flash of fur and indignation, our uninvited guest made a dramatic exit, disappearing into the parking lot faster than my last paycheck. As Shyamatron and I stood there, processing what had just happened, we couldn’t help but laugh. Here we were, two grown adults, outsmarted by a cat who had chosen my car as its temporary luxury suite. Perhaps it was looking for a free ride home, or maybe it was just auditioning for the role of my car’s new alarm system. One thing’s for certain – I now have a new morning routine: checking under my car for any melodious stowaways before starting my day. After all, you never know when your vehicle might decide to double as a cat carrier!

things left behind

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There’s a quiet tragedy in things left behind. Empty rooms that once echoed with laughter now sit in silence, their walls bearing the fading traces of past lives. Buildings stand unfinished or forgotten, relics of dreams that were never fulfilled. Streets no longer walked on, chairs no longer sat in, stories that will never be told. There is a sadness in abandonment, distinct from the solitude of choosing to be alone. It’s the reminder that everything, at some point, was cherished, needed, or inhabited.We are creatures made for connection, drawn to places, people, and memories. To be left behind, or to witness something left behind, stirs something deep within us. It’s why we hold onto family, create communities, and fill our lives with others. Belonging is not just a desire—it’s essential. When we see something or someone cast aside, it echoes a fear and longing we all understand. Perhaps that’s why we look at abandoned places and feel a strange familiarity, a reminder of the need to belong, to love, and to live fully, lest we too fade into forgotten memories.

every moment is significant.

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Every moment holds its own quiet significance. The warmth of fresh-baked bread. The sharpness of a new pencil. The geometry of latticed pie crust. The quiet ache of hands letting go. The velvet texture of a ripe peach. The murmur of morning birds. A detour that led to an unexpected view. The melancholy of an unfinished song. The stillness of waiting for a friend to arrive. The golden crunch of a perfectly toasted baguette. The anticipation of an unread post card. The thrill of a second glance.

raindrops, a deeper delve

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It’s easy to take rain for granted. We watch as drops fall softly from the sky, nourishing the earth, cooling the air, and filling rivers and lakes. But have you ever paused to wonder why rain falls as gentle droplets, rather than torrents or cascades? This simple, familiar process is brimming with signs of intricacy, each step hinting at something purposeful, a design too delicate and intentional to ignore.

Every year, about 45 million cubic meters of water evaporate from the oceans, lifted by winds and transformed into clouds. These clouds carry fresh water over land, blessing us with rain. But if nature were any less refined, rain might fall in destructive sheets, tearing apart crops, drowning streets, and creating endless floods. Instead, raindrops fall softly and steadily, sustaining life. This balance speaks of a natural intelligence, a thoughtful arrangement in every droplet.

Raindrops form high in the sky, beginning as tiny particles of water vapor. As they ascend, they combine with dust and charged particles, clumping together and increasing in size until they’re too heavy to remain in the clouds. Yet they don’t just plummet. They fall as graceful droplets, shaped and slowed by air resistance. This gentle descent means rain reaches the ground at a pace that nurtures, rather than harms. Imagine if raindrops didn’t slow down—the impact from high clouds would be catastrophic, with drops hitting at speeds dangerous enough to damage buildings, landscapes, and people.

Then there’s the question of temperature. Rain falls from great heights, gaining speed and experiencing friction along the way. This friction could easily heat each drop to boiling point, but it doesn’t. Instead, the water stays cool as it condenses and falls, due to the perfect balance of cooling and vaporization processes. Thanks to this balance, every drop remains a source of refreshing life, not scalding heat.

The same balance that creates raindrops makes them pure. Even though rainwater originates from salty oceans, it returns to us without the salt and impurities. Rainwater replenishes the earth, nourishing plants, replenishing rivers, and supporting life everywhere it falls. Without this purity, plants would wither, and ecosystems would struggle. Each drop is, in a sense, nature’s gift, wrapped in purity and life-giving sustenance.

Rain’s ability to nourish extends beyond hydration; it’s a powerful natural fertilizer. As rain travels through the atmosphere, it collects essential minerals, returning to the ground and replenishing the earth. Forests grow lush, fields thrive, and even nutrient-poor soils become rich over time. In this way, rain does more than water the earth; it feeds it. Through this natural process, a balance is achieved, preserving the ecosystems we rely on.

Looking up at a raincloud, consider the intricacy involved in the process that allows such clouds to hang in the sky. Each drop, each gust of wind, each change in air pressure contributes to a delicate dance, and no two clouds are ever the same. It’s this balance, this awe-inspiring orchestration, that turns simple water into one of nature’s most precious resources, a clear reminder of the wisdom interwoven in every corner of our world.

unwinding destiny

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Imagine you’re at a movie theater, watching a film unfold. You’re caught up in the suspense, wondering how the story will end. Yet, to the director, the film’s conclusion is no mystery; the entire storyline is known, edited, and complete. This metaphor may hint at our own lives, suggesting that events we experience moment by moment could be more like scenes on a reel than spontaneous occurrences. But what if everything in our lives—every choice, every path, every twist—was already “edited” in a cosmic timeline, unchangeable, yet new to us? Such a notion, destiny as preordained, is profoundly thought-provoking.

The concept of destiny—that our lives and the universe itself are a kind of prewritten script—leads to a natural question: do we have any real control over what happens? This is not a new debate; philosophers, theologians, and even scientists have pondered it for centuries. Some believe that destiny is a divine design, where every event is part of a plan beyond human understanding. Others argue that we actively shape our lives through choices, claiming agency in the “unknown” future. Yet, modern neuroscience raises an intriguing perspective, suggesting that our choices may be “pre-decided” by our brains before we are consciously aware of them. Experiments in brain science have shown that when we think we’re making a decision, our brain activity shows signs of that choice seconds before we become aware of it. This strange finding implies that free will, at least as we traditionally understand it, might be less “free” than we assume.

But what does this mean for how we live? If every choice we make is part of an unseen, predetermined plan, does that free us from responsibility? Or does it offer a sense of peace, knowing that there’s a purpose and order behind all that happens? Imagine, for instance, a time when you faced a challenging decision. Perhaps you weighed pros and cons, sought advice, and finally made your choice. According to some perspectives on destiny, even that process was guided by something beyond you, aligning you with a path already set out. From this view, our struggles, decisions, and even moments of hesitation are all part of a predetermined journey, one we are invited to experience rather than control.

On the flip side, living as though we have free will can be empowering. It means taking responsibility for our actions, creating our future, and embracing life’s unpredictability. Yet, the paradox remains: if our choices are prewritten, then our sense of “choosing” becomes part of the experience we’re meant to have. In this way, destiny might not mean we’re puppets on strings but rather that we are participants in a story written to teach, challenge, and grow us.

Ultimately, considering destiny in this way can deepen our approach to life and our relationship with the Almighty. If every twist and turn of our journey is part of a grand design, it suggests not randomness but divine intention, woven by a Creator who knows every detail of our lives. Knowing that our path may be guided by the wisdom and love of God can bring a sense of peace and purpose, especially in difficult moments. It’s as though every joy, every challenge, and even every misstep is part of a divine plan, crafted to teach, strengthen, and elevate us in ways we might not fully understand.

the small threads

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You know, it’s funny how the most meaningful parts of life often hide in the simplest things. In the steam rising from your morning tea. In the dog-eared pages of a book you’ve read a hundred times. In those late-night chats that somehow make the stars shine brighter. In the scuffed toes of your favorite sneakers. In the grass stains on well-worn jeans. In the smears of paint on your hands after a creative burst. In the contagious giggle of a toddler. In the laugh lines that grace your face. In the fingerprints smudged on a mirror. In the collection of stamps on a well-traveled suitcase. In the fridge magnets that map out your journeys. In the seashells gathered from distant shores. In the tangle of cords under your desk that keep you connected. In the comfy sweater with a fraying hem. In the empty plates from a meal shared with loved ones. In handwritten postcards sent from afar. In playlists carefully curated just for you. In the crumbs left from a shared slice of pie. In the origami crane folded with care. Life isn’t just the big events or grand achievements. It’s woven into these tiny, often overlooked moments that make up our days. So next time you notice these little things, take a moment. They’re the threads that stitch together the fabric of your existence.

thoughtful silence in a noisy world

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Thank you again for coming. You know how much I value your time ? Really grateful for coming back to my writings. Today, we shall together delve into something that’s been on my mind? We’ve grown up hearing that “speaking your mind” is this ultimate badge of honor. That holding back is somehow dishonest or weak. But let’s question that for a moment. Is constantly voicing every thought really the virtue it’s cracked up to be?In our hyper-connected world, we’ve got this incredible power at our fingertips. A few taps, and our thoughts are out there for everyone to see. Social media platforms have become soapboxes for millions, and the anonymity they offer can be a double-edged sword.Because here’s the flip side: when we’re hidden behind screens, we sometimes forget that our words can cut deep. It’s all too easy to fire off a snarky comment, a harsh critique, or an unsolicited opinion without considering the impact.

Have you noticed how the online world is flooded with opinions on everything? From how someone should live their life to critiques of a meal they’ve never tasted. Everyone’s an expert, everyone’s a critic. But with all this noise, are we actually saying anything meaningful?Maybe it’s time we embrace the power of restraint. There’s immense value in knowing when to speak and when to hold back. Silence isn’t about suppressing ourselves; it’s about choosing our battles, about respecting others, and about understanding that our perspective isn’t the only one that matters.

Think about conversations you’ve had where you truly felt heard. Chances are, the other person did more listening than talking. They weren’t just waiting for their turn to speak; they were engaged, considerate, present.What if we applied that same approach to our online interactions? Before jumping in with our two cents, we could take a moment to really absorb what’s being said. We could ask ourselves whether our input will help or hinder.By being more mindful, we not only elevate the quality of our own communication but also contribute to a more respectful and understanding community. We reduce the clutter of meaningless chatter and make space for genuine dialogue.

So, let’s challenge the notion that we must always speak our minds. Let’s recognize that sometimes, the bravest, most impactful choice is to stay silent. Not out of fear, but out of respect—for others and for ourselves.Next time you’re tempted to fire off that quick retort or unsolicited advice, pause. Take a breath. Consider the weight of your words. You might just find that saying less can actually mean so much more.

valuing this moment that you have

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I’m so thankful for your glance at my writings when you and me are in a sort of a weird world that’s constantly urging us to look back or plan ahead, we often overlook the most crucial element of our existence: the present moment. This very second is the only time that’s truly ours. Haven’t you felt so ? I feel it all the time. The past is a collection of memories—some sweet, others bitter—that have shaped us but are no longer within our grasp. The future is a canvas of possibilities, painted with our hopes and fears, but it’s yet to unfold. Clinging too tightly to what was or yearning excessively for what could be can rob us of the richness that the present has to offer.

Whether you’re walking along the downtown cafes in Dubai, navigating the bustling streets of Kunnamkulam, cruising at 30,000 feet above the ground, or simply sitting alone with your thoughts, life is happening right now. The experiences of yesterday, like a past love or a significant achievement, contribute to your story but aren’t the entirety of it. Likewise, dreams and plans for tomorrow give you direction but aren’t guaranteed.The true essence of life lies in fully engaging with the present moment. It’s in savoring the taste of your food, feeling the rhythm of your breath, or appreciating the smile of a stranger. When we anchor ourselves in the now, we become more attuned to the subtleties of our existence. We start to notice the things we often take for granted—the warmth of the sun on our skin, the sound of leaves rustling in the wind, the comfort of silence.

Living in the present doesn’t mean we dismiss our past or disregard our future. It’s about finding a balance where we acknowledge where we’ve been and where we hope to go, without letting either dominate our consciousness. It’s an invitation to practice mindfulness, to be fully aware of our thoughts, feelings, and surroundings without judgment.Moreover, embracing the present can lead to greater fulfillment and happiness.

Studies in psychology suggest that people who focus on the now tend to experience less stress and greater overall well-being. They build deeper connections with others because they’re genuinely engaged. They make more thoughtful decisions because they’re attuned to their true needs and values at the moment.

So, how do we cultivate this present-centered approach to life? It can start with small, intentional actions. Take a few minutes each day to sit quietly and focus on your breath. Engage in activities that absorb you completely, whether it’s painting, dancing, or cooking. Limit distractions when interacting with others—put away your phone and truly listen. Remind yourself periodically throughout the day to return your attention to the here and now.

Life is a series of moments strung together, and the only one we can truly experience is the current one. By embracing this second—fully and without reservation—we open ourselves up to the profound depth and beauty that life has to offer. So wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, take a moment to breathe deeply and appreciate the now. In doing so, you’re not just passing through life; you’re living it to the fullest.