Tag: Mindset

the everyday joy

Posted on by Ajmal

Imagine waking up to a brand new notebook. Crisp, clean pages waiting to be filled with your story. That’s what each day is – a fresh start, a chance to write a new chapter. The Almighty, in his infinite wisdom, has gifted us with another 24 hours. Isn’t that amazing? But sometimes, life throws us curveballs. We get bogged down by yesterday’s mistakes or stressed about the blank pages of tomorrow. We forget to appreciate the beauty of the open page in front of us – the present moment. Here’s a secret: true contentment isn’t found in chasing some grand tomorrow or dwelling on a faded yesterday. It’s about savoring the present moment, the inkwell full of possibilities right at your fingertips. Think about it like this: have you ever gotten so caught up in scrolling through your phone that you miss a breathtaking sunset happening right outside your window? It’s a metaphor. Gratitude is like stepping away from the screen of everyday noise and turning your gaze to the real wonder unfolding before you, the blessings specifically catered for you that you don’t notice. Look around. Notice the tiny details – the warmth of the sun on your skin, the sound of laughter in the distance, the vibrant colors of the world. There’s always someone who has less than you, even if it’s just a roof over their head or a full belly. Taking a moment to appreciate these blessings, big or small, shifts your perspective. It reminds you that you’re already rich in ways that matter most. Connecting with the Almighty is another powerful tool for finding contentment. When you acknowledge a higher power, it puts your worries in perspective. You realize you’re part of something bigger, and that can bring a deep sense of peace. So, while you read the blog for today, let’s decide something. Today, let’s close the photo album of yesterday and stop flipping through the worry pages of tomorrow. Let’s open the fresh notebook of the present moment, fill it with gratitude, and connect with something bigger than ourselves. That’s the recipe for a truly content and joyful day. Remember this when hardship hits you. Come back again to read. I will be waiting for you in this garden of words and hope. God bless.

rowboat in the hurricane

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As a writer, I have always tried to be an instiller of hope to my readers. I don’t want anyone to feel down. We’ve all been there. You know the feeling: adrift in a sea of troubles, waves crashing over the deck, and the horizon lost in a thick fog. Helpless. Hopeless. Powerless. Like you’re just a tiny rowboat caught in a hurricane. It’s easy to want to throw in the anchor, curl up in the bilge, and wait for the storm to pass. But here’s the thing: giving up is never the answer. Even when the fiercest gales are howling, there’s always a flicker of hope, a tiny ember glowing in the heart of the storm.

Think of hope like a stubborn lighthouse. It stands tall amidst the chaos, its beam cutting through the darkness, reminding you that there’s still land ahead. It might be faint, barely a speck on the horizon, but it’s there. And that is enough. Because that tiny speck is where your destination lies, a calm harbor waiting to welcome you after the storm.

Now, we all know storms can be disorienting. Sometimes, the crashing waves make it hard to see where you’re going. That’s where faith comes in. It’s the hand on the tiller, steady and strong, guiding you through the roughest seas. It’s the unwavering belief that even when you can’t see the way forward, there’s a higher power watching over you, a captain who knows the course even when the charts are washed away. Cling to that hope, my friend. Cling to the faith that there’s something bigger than the storm, a calm that awaits you on the other side. Because even the fiercest tempests eventually run out of steam. The sun will peek through the clouds again, and you, battered but not broken, will find the strength to steer your ship towards calmer waters. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. I wrote this so that next time you feel like you’re drowning in a sea of troubles, take a deep breath, and look for that glimmer of hope. Think about what you just read. At that stage, it might be a kind word from a friend, a beautiful sunset, or a simple act of compassion. Hold onto it, nurture it, and let it be your guiding light and rely on the divine. After all, the bravest sailors aren’t those who never face storms, but those who weather them with hope in their hearts.

whisper amidst the clamor

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In this loud, fast-paced world, it’s so easy to get pulled in a million different directions. There are constant demands on your time and energy – work responsibilities, family obligations, social pressures. Not to mention the nagging voice in your head that loves to pipe up with doubts, insecurities, and criticism. Amidst all the noise and chaos, it can be extremely difficult to hear your own inner voice – that deep, intuitive wisdom that helps guide you towards your truest self and path. Your inner compass can get drowned out by everything and everyone else’s agendas, expectations, and “shoulds”. But learning to tune into and trust your inner compass is one of the most important skills you’ll ever develop. It’s the only way to ensure you’re living with authenticity and intention, rather than just going through the motions on autopilot.

Your inner compass is that subtle gut feeling that something is right or wrong for you, regardless of what others think. It’s the quiet certainty that pulls you in a particular direction, even if the world seems to be pushing you towards a different choice. It’s your wisest, most insightful self gently pointing you down your soul’s unique path. Accessing that intuitive guidance requires slowing down enough to listen. It means creating pockets of solitude where you can go inward, away from the deafening external noise. It involves checking in with how you really feel about a situation, rather than numbly following someone else’s plan for your life. The more you practice tuning into your inner wisdom, the louder and clearer it becomes. You start catching yourself when you’re out of alignment with your values and desires. You become empowered to make decisions based on what rings most true for you, not what others deem acceptable.

In a world constantly barraging you with other’s priorities and perceptions, your inner compass is your cosmic homing signal, your soul’s sweet whisper amidst the clamor, gently guiding you homewards toward your most radiant, authentic expression. Learning to listen to and follow that intuitive inner compass is your secret weapon against getting lost in the mayhem of the crowds. It’s how you stop living on autopilot and start showing up fully as your most vibrant, alive self. It’s how you ensure you’re hiking your own trail rather than mindlessly following someone else’s path. So pause, go inward, and get reacquainted with that brilliant inner light. Let it illuminate the way to you living your truth with more courage, clarity and conviction. It’s in there, patiently waiting to be rediscovered.

intentional essentialism

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In the relentless pursuit of success and fulfillment, we often find ourselves trapped in a whirlwind of endless tasks, commitments, and distractions. Caught up in the frenzy, we lose sight of what truly matters, spreading ourselves thin across a myriad of obligations that drain our energy and dilute our focus. However, the path to a life of purpose and impact lies in the art of discerning the essential and embracing the power of simplicity.

Just think about your daily routine – the constant buzzing of notifications, the ever-growing to-do lists, the endless stream of emails and meetings. It’s easy to get swept up in a cycle of reactivity, mindlessly checking off tasks without pausing to consider their true value or alignment with your deeper goals. Before you know it, you’re caught in a perpetual state of busyness, chasing after countless priorities that ultimately leave you feeling unfulfilled and disconnected from your authentic self.

The process begins with self-reflection, a deep exploration of what truly matters to you. What are the principles that guide your life? What are the dreams and aspirations that fuel your pursuit? What are the relationships and activities that bring you joy and fulfillment? By answering these questions, you establish a foundation upon which to build your life, enabling you to discern the essential from the superfluous.

Once you have clarity on your core values and aspirations, the next step is to apply this lens to every aspect of your life. Whether it’s your professional commitments, personal relationships, or financial decisions, ask yourself: Does this align with my values and contribute to my goals? Will this have a lasting impact on what truly matters? Is this a need or merely a want?

For instance, when faced with a daunting to-do list, resist the temptation to tackle everything at once. Instead, pause and evaluate each task through the lens of your priorities. Which tasks will have the most significant impact on your goals? Which ones can be delegated or postponed without compromising your core objectives? By identifying and focusing on the essential, you not only increase your productivity but also ensure that your efforts are channeled towards what truly matters.

Similarly, when it comes to your finances, the need versus want distinction becomes paramount. Instead of mindlessly indulging in every whim, ask yourself: Is this purchase aligned with my values and long-term goals, or is it merely a temporary desire? By filtering your spending through this lens, you can cultivate financial discipline and direct your resources towards what truly enriches your life.

The beauty of simplicity lies in its transformative power. As you eliminate the nonessential clutter from your life, you create space for what truly matters. Imagine a decluttered home, where every item holds meaning and purpose, a sanctuary that fosters tranquility and clarity. Envision a streamlined schedule, free from the noise of unnecessary commitments, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the pursuits that ignite your passion.

However, the journey towards simplicity is not a one-time event; it is an ongoing process of continual editing and refinement. As your circumstances evolve and your aspirations shift, you must periodically revisit your priorities, reevaluating what is essential and letting go of what no longer serves you.

Embrace the art of simplicity as a way of life, a constant pursuit of clarity and intentionality. Just as a sculptor meticulously chips away at the excess to reveal the masterpiece within, so too must you chisel away at the nonessential, unveiling the essence of a life lived with purpose and meaning.

Remember, simplicity is not about deprivation or asceticism; it is about curating a life that reflects your values and nurtures your soul. It is about creating space for what truly matters, freeing yourself from the shackles of the superfluous to embrace the beauty of the essential.

In a world that often equates busyness with success, the art of simplicity may seem counterintuitive. Yet, it is in the stillness of a focused existence that you will find the clarity and energy to pursue your passions with unwavering dedication, leaving an indelible mark on the world around you.

mindful distraction

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“It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes your happy or unhappy. It is what you think about. “

—Dale Carnegie

This is an aspect that I’ve been pondering on for quite a while now. Amidst the chaos of life, it is not uncommon for our hearts to be consumed by worry and anxiety. We find ourselves lost in a sea of negative thoughts, struggling to break free from the chains of our fears and sorrows. But, there is hope. We can find solace in the art of distraction, in immersing ourselves in activities and knowledge that bring joy to our hearts. Let’s say you had a bad meeting for example, which was very unpleasant. You can spend the entire day ruminating about it and be worried with thoughts. Always remember that it’s our thoughts that drive and form our actions.

The human spirit has the ability to heal itself, to rise above the challenges that life throws our way. And, when we are faced with sorrow and worry, we can find a way to turn our attention to the present, to focus on the here and now. For, it is in the present moment that we have the power to shape our lives, to make a positive impact on the world. When we concentrate our attention on the affairs of the present, we can create a better reality for ourselves, and we can release ourselves from the chains of grief and anxiety.

It is important to find something that brings us happiness and fulfillment, something that we are passionate about, and to concentrate our energy and attention on that pursuit. Whether it be gardening, writing, cooking, or any other activity, it is in these moments that we can find peace, joy, and happiness. For, all knowledge is within reach, and we have the power to shape our lives in the present moment. Instead of grieving or getting anxious about something in the past or future which we’ve no control of, engage in something you love.

  • Pursue a hobby.
  • Start a course
  • Aquire a skill.

So, let us embrace the moment, let us focus our energy on the here and now. The present moment is what you have with you. Push hard to fix the routines to make time for things you love. Love to hear your thoughts.