from climbing ladders to building wings

The cityscape stretches endlessly before them, a testament to boundless possibility. They stand at the edge, not of a building, but of a self-made future, where the only limit is the horizon of their own imagination. They, once confined by the corporate ladder, now explodes into a universe of limitless potential.

Forget the neatly polished rungs of a corporate ladder. Today’s career landscape resembles a boundless sky, inviting professionals to chart their own paths and build their own wings. It’s a radical departure from the past, where stability and loyalty were rewarded with gradual climbs and guaranteed steps. But this shift, while dramatic, wasn’t just a whim; it was an inevitable response to a world in flux. Once upon a time, a job at a big company felt like a golden handcuff – secure, comfortable, and promising a future etched in promotions and predictable paychecks. Years of dedication bought you a title and a sense of belonging, your career unfolding like a pre-written script. But then, the world tilted. Globalization upped the competition, technology reshuffled industries, and stability became a fleeting promise. Suddenly, the ladder wobbled. Companies, unable to adapt, risked tumbling down. This, coupled with a new generation’s hunger for agency and impact, sparked a revolution. Millennial minds, raised on innovation and agility, yearned for careers that felt less like preordained journeys and more like open canvases. Enter the era of the self-made flyer. Startup culture soared, offering a launchpad for independent ideas and entrepreneurial dreams. These ventures were incubators of risk-taking, where passionate individuals could bypass corporate hoops and chase audacious visions. Instead of climbing a pre-built structure, they were building their own, fueled by the potential for exponential growth and the chance to truly own their success. This shift wasn’t about rejecting the past; it was about embracing a future where security comes from self-reliance, not golden handcuffs. Was it riskier? Undoubtedly. But for many, the freedom to explore, innovate, and shape their own destinies outweighed the comfort of the climb. Of course, the debate between ladders and wings continues. Some argue that stability provided focus and purpose, while others find fulfillment in the open skies of self-invention. But through it all, one thing remains constant: the desire to contribute, to create, and to build a meaningful career. The methods may have changed, but the core human drive remains the same. So, what does this mean for you? Whether you choose to navigate the open skies or climb the corporate ladder, one thing is certain: the path is no longer set. Embrace the unknown, hone your skills, and remember, the only limit is the one you set for yourself. Take flight, explore, and build a career that reflects your unique aspirations and dreams. The sky, after all, isn’t the limit; it’s the starting point.

hidden depths

Have you considered all that lies within the scope of a single human mind? We possess a capacity for thought seemingly without limits, yet most go through life exploring but a fraction of its potential. Our minds are akin to vast, uncharted landscapes hiding wonders just beyond the next rise. All it takes is for us to set forth and discover what lies in our power to uncover.

Take a moment to observe the world around you with open awareness rather than half-formed preoccupations. Look closely at a simple fruit – a banana, perhaps. Note the ingenious wrapper nature provided in its peel, protecting the nutritious flesh within while allowing seeds to disperse. Consider how from a drop of water and flecks of minerals, flowers emerge in a riot of color and fragrance.

Gaze upward at the sky. Consider the trees lining the streets. Science tells us they grew from tiny seeds, pulling carbon from the air through photosynthesis into mighty forms that support entire ecosystems. Yet how many walk by without thought for this quiet miracle? Or the birds that alight among their branches – how their wings beat faster than our eyes can follow yet grant them flight. Look closer and you see life animating even a single leaf in myriad small ways.

Mosquitoes flitting there move almost too rapidly for the eye to follow, yet the intricate motion of wings grants flight. Such observations need not stop at nature. We might reflect on where we came from – sprung from nothingness, shaped through eons, and carrying on lineages stretching back to the dawn of life. On what may come, and on seeing with new eyes what always surrounded us. When was the last time you truly pondered another person you passed, and the inner worlds they inhabit?

When was the last time you truly contemplated your own impermanence and mortality? How rapidly time passes, and the changes it brings with age. One day, you will have to leave this world of forms. Where will your thoughts have brought you by that point?

Yet in this fleeting life spins on, filled with purpose if only we have the insight to see it. Most are too engrossed in trivial distractions and egoism to reflect on life’s deeper questions. Why do we cling to temporary things when our true need lies in preparing for what’s to come? By thinking, however, we lift our gazes and perspectives.

Each new insight reminds us that within our minds exist endless unexplored lands. Imagine setting forth on that journey in full earnestness – pondering one’s very existence, nature’s ingenious designs, and life’s brief yet consequential moments. We might find greater awe, wisdom and connection. The more deeply we think, the vaster the vistas that emerge within. Truly, the possibility for knowledge and betterment contained in a single mind seems infinite – if only we make the choice to embark upon its exploration.

the nature of perception

Our perception of reality is shaped by more than what meets the eye. The world we experience is constructed within our minds based on sensory inputs and built upon frameworks developed over a lifetime.

Our perception of reality is shaped by more than what meets the eye. The world we experience is constructed within our minds based on sensory inputs and built upon frameworks developed over a lifetime. However, advancements in science continue to reveal how flawed these frameworks can be when held as absolute truths. Consider our perception of time. We assume it marches steadily forward in fixed increments, yet Einstein showed it is relative to one’s frame of reference. The passage of time progresses more slowly for those in rapid motion. Even more bewildering, experiments prove two observers in different states of motion will disagree on the measurements of time between shared events. Our intuition proves wrong on this fundamental aspect of reality.

Similarly counterintuitive is the nature of matter revealed by quantum mechanics. At the subatomic level, particles behave as probabilities rather than definite objects. Their properties seem to exist in a blurry superposition awaiting observation to take on discrete values. Even the very concept of “particles” may be a misnomer – the underlying nature of reality defies visualization. If matter can only be known through its effects on conscious observers, does it have an independent existence? Perhaps most striking is that space itself appears firmly set in our minds yet, as Einstein showed, is interwoven with time into the fabric of spacetime. Far from an immutable container, it is dynamically molded by the distribution of mass and energy. Two individuals in differing motions will measure disparate distances between the same events. Space proves as perception dependent as time. Could it be that our whole conception of an objective, observer-independent reality is mistaken? If the foundations of physics continually overturn our instinctive models, might a deeper truth be that existence is fundamentally of a mental character? That the seemingly solid world is but an intricate framing within consciousness itself? Such ideas run counter to ingrained assumptions yet gain credence when we open our perception beyond surface appearances and consider all nature points to something beyond—a Creator whose wisdom fashioned it all. Perhaps the borders of reality lie not without, but within the infinite depths of a single Mind.

being works in progress

Rather than seeing uncertainty as something to fear or defeat, we would do well to accept it as a constant reality of being human. In a world of limitless possibilities, none of us has perfect clarity. We can only make choices based on our present understanding, which will forever evolve along with new knowledge and insights.

It’s easy to feel lost amidst life’s twists and turns. We all experience times when our plans don’t work out as intended, and uncertainty clouds our vision of what comes next. In those moments, it’s natural to look back with regret or forward with dread. However, dwelling in disappointment prevents us from appreciating how far we’ve truly come. Each step of our journey, whether triumphant or troubled, contributes to the person we become. We learn through both success and failure, with experience gradually granting wisdom that opening each new door cannot provide. What seems a mistake at the time may lead us exactly where we need to go. Though ambiguity can feel uncomfortable, it allows for growth that a rigid path could never foster. Rather than seeing uncertainty as something to fear or defeat, we would do well to accept it as a constant reality of being human. In a world of limitless possibilities, none of us has perfect clarity. We can only make choices based on our present understanding, which will forever evolve along with new knowledge and insights. This does not mean we lack agency, but that we retain the ability to reconsider our direction when wiser eyes see opportunities to adjust our course. The destination remains unwritten. But taking stock of how much we’ve learned since setting out reminds us that each new challenge, however daunting, has been met before. We’ve endured changes that once seemed impossible to imagine. And so we can find confidence that whatever comes, our ability to adapt and push forward will be enough. In these transient moments, it serves us to reflect on the resilience of the human spirit through history’s uncertain tides. Darkness does not erase the light-bearing stars; it but makes their gentle guidance ever more clear. So too will hope sustain us if we trust in the process that has shaped who we are – opening our eyes with patience, empathy and compassion to the rich experience of being works in progress.

lens of reverence

by seeing the ordinary as sacred, we stop taking things for granted. The mundane becomes special, infused with a beauty we previously overlooked. This applies to objects, our surroundings, and even our daily tasks. Treating our possessions with care, engaging in our work with passion, and appreciating the simple things around us can elevate our everyday experiences. | the border of a mind studios

In today’s fast-paced digital era, it’s easy to lose ourselves in the whirlwind of screens and notifications. Our mornings often begin not with a moment of peace, but with a rush to check our devices. As the day progresses, we find ourselves caught in a cycle of stress, multitasking, and constant connection to the digital world, rarely pausing to reflect on our surroundings. However, imagine a different approach to life, one where we perceive our environment and ourselves through a lens of reverence and wonder. This concept goes beyond religious connotations. It’s about seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary, recognizing the remarkable nature of our existence and the world around us. Consider the sheer marvel of life and the universe. The fact that we exist in this vast, intricate cosmos is a phenomenon that can be seen as divine. The beauty of nature – the trees, birds, and the gentle dance of leaves in the wind – all hold a kind of magic that we often overlook. What if we started viewing everything in our lives as precious and deserving of our full attention and respect? This shift in perspective can transform our daily experiences in profound ways.

Firstly, by seeing the ordinary as sacred, we stop taking things for granted. The mundane becomes special, infused with a beauty we previously overlooked. This applies to objects, our surroundings, and even our daily tasks. Treating our possessions with care, engaging in our work with passion, and appreciating the simple things around us can elevate our everyday experiences.

Secondly, this mindset fosters deeper connections with others. When we view people as sacred, our interactions are filled with respect, empathy, and love. We begin to appreciate the unique qualities of each individual, recognizing the shared human experience that connects us all. Moreover, this perspective invites us to treat ourselves with kindness and respect. Recognizing our own sacredness leads to healthier choices, both physically and mentally. We start to value ourselves more, nurturing our bodies and minds with what truly benefits us. Lastly, seeing the world as sacred fills us with awe and a sense of purpose. We become more mindful and present, appreciating the miracle of life and our role in it. Every moment becomes an opportunity to celebrate the wonder of existence. Embracing this view doesn’t require a leap of faith; it simply involves a shift in perception. It’s about acknowledging the extraordinary in the ordinary, finding joy and reverence in the everyday. This approach doesn’t just change how we see the world; it transforms how we live in it. By treating our environment, others, and ourselves as sacred, we open ourselves to a life of deeper meaning, respect, and appreciation.

mortal mettle

Like a shipwrecked vessel adrift at sea, our earthly lives are but a fleeting voyage. As transient travelers treading the sands of time, we journey together under endless skies, our footprints traced temporarily along the shores of eternity. Though our mortal shells erode, our spirits sail on. (Photographed and styled by The Border of a Mind Studios from a beach in Sharjah, United Arab Emirates)

We all try to avoid thinking about it, but death comes for us all eventually. Though it makes us uncomfortable, reflecting on our mortality can inspire us to live more purposefully. When the clock of life stops ticking, fret not about the lifeless body you leave behind. Your loved ones will take good care of it—they’ll dress you up nicely in a white shroud before sending you off on your final journey.

Many will come to see you off – some taking time off work, others rearranging plans. They’ll stand around chatting like at a high school reunion before you set off on your last journey.

Your possessions – that Ukulele lying around you never learned to play, the fancy plates at home you never used, the clothes that hung unworn in your closet – they’ll all be passed on, sold off, or tossed out quicker than last night’s leftovers. The details of your material life will go on without you.

At the office, they’ll have your replacement before your obituary hits the papers. Your workload will be passed on seamlessly like a baton in a relay race.

Your finances and assets will go to your next of kin. Don’t be surprised if you continue to be analyzed and criticized even in death – people always have opinions, after all.

True friends will mourn you for a time, shedding tears over memories you made together. But the river of life keeps flowing, and they’ll soon be back to their routines. As for fairweather friends, they’ll forget you faster than a fleeting TikTok trend.

Your pets might tilt their heads confused, wondering where you went, but they’ll bond with their new owners soon enough. Loyalty has its limits.

Your smiling face in those photos on the mantle will gather dust, gradually relegated to boxes in the attic to fade from memory.

Your home will echo with emptiness for a while, but will soon be filled with the noise of someone else living your life.

In time, the pain will subside, the calls will taper off, and you’ll become just another name etched into stone, a distant memory.

For you, though, the real adventure is just beginning. A new phase of existence where worldly possessions and status symbols are meaningless. Where you take only what you gave – your compassion, wisdom, and light.

While you glance at these writings, let us remind each other to live and love fully now. Build spiritual wealth by touching lives. That’s the only currency that lasts. Make your mark on this world, because your chance is finite. But your soul is infinite.

weight of impermanence

weight of impermanance

Today, I attended the funeral service of a colleague who passed away while having a heart attack in a football ground. He was 24 years old and had only started life. He was married only a month back. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones. Though I’ve not personally worked with him directly, attending his burial has overwhelmed me by the weight of impermanence of this life.

We are mere passing visitors in this world, leaves that fall from a tree and eventually wilt away. The things we accumulate and the titles we hold are but temporary markers of our existence. The only things that truly endure are the memories and impressions we leave in the hearts of those we love.

As I sat there, I thought about my own life and all the things I had taken for granted. I thought about all the things I still wanted to achieve and all the people I still wanted to meet. But most of all, I thought about the ones I love and how I wanted to make a lasting impact in their lives.

In the face of death, we are forced to confront the reality of our own mortality. But this doesn’t have to be a source of fear or despair. Instead, it can be a source of inspiration, a call to live each day with purpose and intention.

As I left the funeral, I was filled with a newfound appreciation for the present moment. I decided to make the most of my time, to live fully, to love deeply, and to make a positive impact on the world.

The impermanence of life is a difficult concept to grasp, but it is a reminder to make the most of every moment. We never know when our time will be up, but we can choose to live our lives in a way that brings meaning and purpose to ourselves and those around us. We can choose to be a source of comfort, hope, and inspiration in a world that is often filled with pain and suffering.

In the end, death is inevitable, but it is what we do with our lives that truly matters. Let us not waste a single moment, but instead strive to make a positive difference, to love deeply, and to live fully. May we never forget that our time on earth is fleeting, and may we make the most of every moment.

attention abundance

Attention Abundance – Fine art from The Border of a Mind Studios.

A topic that I’ve pondered a lot on crafting several portions of this blog is undivided attention and its grace. Attention, in its purest form, is an act of generosity that requires an immense amount of selflessness and discipline. When we give someone our full attention, we are gifting them with our most precious commodity – time. Time is a non-renewable resource, once spent it can never be regained. In this way, attention is the rarest form of generosity because it is a one-way transaction, one that can never be reciprocated.

In an age of constant distractions, where our attention is pulled in a million different directions, giving someone our full attention has become an increasingly challenging task. It requires a level of mental fortitude and a steadfast commitment to the present moment. In a world where the next shiny object is always just a click or swipe away, the ability to focus and give someone our undivided attention is a truly remarkable and valuable skill. It is one that, when practiced, can deepen connections, foster understanding, and create a sense of empathy and compassion. Attention is not only a gift to the recipient, but it is also a gift to ourselves, as it allows us to fully engage with the world around us, and to live in the present moment. Personally, I was able to have deep personal connections with people with whom this has resonated well and they’re an integral part of my mental space. And in all probability, they’re reading these lines now. Grateful for taking your precious time in glancing at these lines.